⭐Our Sonic Temple Ritual (And How We Keep It Manageable)
Every family ends up with a few rituals that become “their thing.”
For some families it’s camping trips.
For others it’s holidays or annual vacations.
For us, one of those rituals has become music festivals.
Most recently, that ritual has taken us to Sonic Temple Art & Music Festival here in Columbus. On paper, a rock festival probably sounds like an unusual family tradition.
Thousands of people.
Loud music.
Long days.
But somehow, it’s become one of the ways my youngest son and I connect the most.
One if our favorite traditions: Live music together.
We’ve gone together a few times now. Once with my husband, a couple of times with friends, and now we’re starting to build our own rhythm for the festival.
Recently I asked him something I’ve wondered about for a while.
I asked if there were things we should be doing to make the festival easier for him.
His answer surprised me.
He said he doesn’t really need strategies.
He said that when he’s at a music festival, he actually feels alive.
He said he feels like himself there.
That moment stopped me for a second.
Because sometimes as a parent, you spend a lot of time trying to manage environments, reduce stress, and make sure everything is set up in a way that works for your kids.
But sometimes the environment itself is what makes everything click.
It reminded me of something I’ve been learning about travel lately — it’s not always about where you go, but what it gives back to you.
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Some Places Just Fit
He told me he feels the same way at sporting events.
There’s something about the shared energy of a crowd that feels natural to him.
Everyone is there for the same reason.
The music.
The game.
The excitement.
Nobody is trying to be anything other than what they are in that moment.
And that made something else click for me.
It explains why these experiences end up being some of our best connection time.
At sporting events you’re mostly sitting and watching. You can talk a little, but the focus is on the field.
Music festivals are different.
There’s a lot of space between the big moments.
You wander between stages.
You grab food.
You sit for a while.
You talk.
The day has a rhythm to it.
And somewhere inside all that movement and music, we end up having some of our best conversations.
This is the same feeling we’ve noticed in other trips too — especially the ones where we slow down enough to actually be present together.
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Limp Bizkit performing at Sonic Temple Art & Music Festival. One of the moments that reminded us why live music is such an incredible experience.
Keeping the Day Manageable
Even though the festival itself feels natural to him, I’ve still learned that a little planning makes the whole experience smoother.
Before we go, I always check the festival guidelines so we know exactly what we can bring and how things need to be packaged. Avoiding issues at the gate keeps the day from starting with stress.
I bring the basics that make long outdoor days easier:
• refillable water bottles
• sunscreen
• comfortable bags
• portable phone chargers
Over the years we’ve also learned the value of a home base.
Lockers have been surprisingly helpful because they give us a place to stash things and regroup during the day. By the end of the night, they also become a familiar spot to return to before heading out with the crowds.
This year we’re trying something new.
We decided to get VIP passes.
Not because we need anything fancy, but because the idea of having a calmer space to sit and reset between sets sounded like it might make the whole day even more enjoyable.
Sometimes the smallest adjustments make the biggest difference.
Joy Works Best When It’s Natural
What I realized during that conversation with my son is that not every experience needs to be managed into something enjoyable.
Sometimes the right environment does that on its own.
When you find the places where someone feels comfortable being themselves, the energy shifts.
The day becomes easier.
The conversations come naturally.
And the memories tend to stick.
For us, music festivals somehow landed in that category.
I may joke that I’m getting a little old to stand in a stadium all day, but there’s something about the music, the crowd, and the rhythm of the festival that keeps bringing us back.
At this point, it’s not just an event.
It’s one of our rituals.
And those are the experiences that often end up mattering the most.
Planning a Festival Visit
Over the years we’ve learned a few small things that make festival days easier.
If you're planning a visit to Sonic Temple Art & Music Festival, these basics help keep the day smooth:
• Comfortable shoes
• Refillable water bottle
• Small backpack or sling bag
• Portable phone charger
• Sunscreen and a hat
• A meeting spot in case you get separated
The goal isn’t to pack everything.
The goal is to pack enough that the day stays easy.
A Question I Ask Before Every Trip
Before planning any experience now, I ask myself one simple question:
Where do I feel most like myself?
When the answer is clear, planning becomes easier.
And the joy usually follows.
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